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Post by fromtheotherside on Dec 1, 2006 12:38:51 GMT
Utter b***cks. I speak to a lot of people who are grieving, and I NEVER rip into their beliefs of the afterlife, if that makes them happy then fine. Utter f**k**g b***cks kendra and you know it. What mediums do is pure evil, and you try to paint as as the bad guys? I really cant be arsed to reply to the rest of your nonsense today kendra. i really thought you were smarter than that ;D what did I say Shazz..... Im not painting anyone as the bad guys Jon  ...I actually thought this thread might make people stop and think before they lay into people on their beliefs,also I was hoping against hope that maybe one person who might be trundling around this forum who has recently lost someone or is grieving might notice this thread,and maybe..just maybe go see someone or find a group that can actually help them in an unbiased way. Also any mediums that might trundle on here that relish grieving relatives(none on here at moment but you never know one might join) might stop and think of the consequences of there actions.. I actually thought this was a constructive thread..and I still do! Your reaction though is very interesting! |
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Post by fromtheotherside on Dec 1, 2006 12:43:12 GMT
Why? Because people respect my opinion. Why do you find it so hard to accept that people like and respect me Kendra? And that they may be interested in what i have to say For gods sakes Jon will you stop the bloody attacks  I asked why because if she believes it too be true then why ould she need to ask anyone? Arrrggghh I oculd strangle you sometimes,you know that dont you ...... Oh Gish a kish Jon and chill  (kendra grabs jons head and lays a smaker on his forehead) |
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Post by lowrider on Dec 1, 2006 12:44:15 GMT
I agree i do like and respect Jon and and i have seen him give some lovely words to people who are grieving. But i feel that this site could be a little to robust for many who are feeling vulnerable. But some will enjoy getting the anger of bereavement out on here. I just hope they take on board all views and come to a considered opinion. And are allowed to do so.  |
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Post by fromtheotherside on Dec 1, 2006 13:08:44 GMT
If I meant specifically you Jon I would have damned well said so!And I totally 100% know people do like and respect you, though it sticks in my throat to admit it..I like and respect you..damn it man...I adore you to bits you ickle meany sceptic you |
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Post by fromtheotherside on Dec 1, 2006 13:13:04 GMT
I agree i do like and respect Jon and and i have seen him give some lovely words to people who are grieving. But i feel that this site could be a little to robust for many who are feeling vulnerable. But some will enjoy getting the anger of bereavement out on here. I just hope they take on board all views and come to a considered opinion. And are allowed to do so. Exactly LR...as the saying goes theres a time and a place for everything, I also believe theres a place and a time for everything! |
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Post by oh2bhappy on Dec 1, 2006 13:14:37 GMT
Because people respect my opinion. Why do you find it so hard to accept that people like and respect me Kendra? And that they may be interested in what i have to say For gods sakes Jon will you stop the bloody attacks I asked why because if she believes it too be true then why ould she need to ask anyone? Arrrggghh I oculd strangle you sometimes,you know that dont you ...... Oh Gish a kish Jon and chill (kendra grabs jons head and lays a smaker on his forehead) I was curious with Jon had to say, as I'm not a medium, but have had these experiences. I knew he wasn't going to tear my experience to bits. I also liked the reply he gave - as I have found the other replies. I think thats the thing about grieving. Many people think you get over it as soon as normal life resumes. You don't. It goes on forever. I just felt like it was a new chapter. |
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Post by fromtheotherside on Dec 1, 2006 13:20:14 GMT
For gods sakes Jon will you stop the bloody attacks I asked why because if she believes it too be true then why ould she need to ask anyone? Arrrggghh I oculd strangle you sometimes,you know that dont you ...... Oh Gish a kish Jon and chill (kendra grabs jons head and lays a smaker on his forehead) I was curious with Jon had to say, as I'm not a medium, but have had these experiences. I knew he wasn't going to tear my experience to bits. I also liked the reply he gave - as I have found the other replies. I think thats the thing about grieving. Many people think you get over it as soon as normal life resumes. You don't. It goes on forever. I just felt like it was a new chapter. cool And its very true,you never get over loosing someone,the process itself I feel is more of acceptance as such than anything else. |
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Post by Meercat on Dec 1, 2006 14:07:44 GMT
Well if this site (or even the internet!) had been around during the worst of my 'grieving process' (who's to say I'm still not in many ways, who knows) then I don't think it would have been the best place to assist me. I agree with Lowrider when he says that here may be a little "robust" for some.
Its a strange time, your mind can have some peculiar thoughts running through it and I'm not sure the strong contradictions in belief/faith/God/the afterlife that we get on here would help much.
It IS a vulnerable time, a time when even the wrong word at the wrong time can be taken badly, let alone a whole thread blowing your beliefs from under you.
But this place is excellent once you have regained some emotional strength back. But first you need to come to terms with the way 'you' feel and think about things.
A life changing event as a death takes its emotional toll, getting your strength back may only take days, may take decades or you may never actually recover from it. During that grieving process its easy to forget those around you, those are the people you need, as they need you.
The grieving want answers, a debate will generally only give you more questions and I don't think this is a help in the process. Each person is different, and I do hope that anyone on here who is still undergoing that grieving process will find what I have found when I joined this site.
A group of people who enjoy a (sometimes heated!) debate, a place where answers are seldom found, but boy is it fun asking the questions, a place where ANYONES opinion is welcomed (and yes sometimes questioned, sometimes ridiculed, and God forbid sometimes, just sometimes, agreed with!) But that is the best bit of this site, so many people, so many viewpoints from every angle. So those who are still going through that grieving process, this is not a site to 'make things better' or to answer those questions you so desperately need answering, but it IS a good place, enjoy.
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Post by Mr. Jon Donnis on Dec 1, 2006 14:17:38 GMT
When my cousin was Murdered, i used this place to take out some of my anger, whether it be in a heated debate or whatever. That helped me i know,
This forum can also act as a distraction during hard times too.
So in all i think this forum is a good place.
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Post by shazzz on Dec 1, 2006 14:29:22 GMT
When my cousin was Murdered, i used this place to take out some of my anger, whether it be in a heated debate or whatever. That helped me i know, This forum can also act as a distraction during hard times too. So in all i think this forum is a good place. yes but your pretty level headed, and wouldnt go and visit a medium. Some people will use this forum as a way of takign hatred out on others through their grief.. Perhaps someone is greiving they come on here after seeing a medium, they get a bad reading, and they use this forum as way to channel their revenge on all mediums it could happen |
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Post by fromtheotherside on Dec 1, 2006 14:32:51 GMT
When my cousin was Murdered, i used this place to take out some of my anger, whether it be in a heated debate or whatever. That helped me i know, This forum can also act as a distraction during hard times too. So in all i think this forum is a good place. yes but your pretty level headed, and wouldnt go and visit a medium. Some people will use this forum as a way of takign hatred out on others through their grief.. Perhaps someone is greiving they come on here after seeing a medium, they get a bad reading, and they use this forum as way to channel their revenge on all mediums it could happen Could happen  Shazzy it does happen and you know it.lol stop playing devils advocate madam |
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...I actually thought this thread might make people stop and think before they lay into people on their beliefs,also I was hoping against hope that maybe one person who might be trundling around this forum who has recently lost someone or is grieving might notice this thread,and maybe..just maybe go see someone or find a group that can actually help them in an unbiased way.
(kendra grabs jons head and lays a smaker on his forehead)
Shazzy it does happen and you know it.lol stop playing devils advocate madam